4 things to avoid when men in bed

Sometimes you think you are "loving" the wrong way? Never subjective, because even with an experienced man having sex can also see these errors.

Lack of grooming before entering the room

Many men or lazy, or forget that they can actually have an unpleasant smell something on your body, if they are not really clean. Most women do not want any smell anything unpleasant odor on the body of their men, except that the fragrant and clean.

Gentleman should pay attention to this sensitive issue before the act, make clean before you close your partner.

Not capture the signal (which may be verbal or body gestures) enemy

Many women complain that their men do not know how to listen and adapt the signal "sex" in bed to satisfy them.

This error may stem from the ego of men, who often thinking that they are experienced and seasoned field experience situation, so they believe that their understanding of the major parties certainly better. So, they will insist that they do what is right.

Not know how to warm up the engine, "a kind before the war

In other words, there is tenderness, passionate foreplay before "for combat. " The foreplay is not enough "hot" will be difficult to stimulate the libido of both.

The whole "love" may be nothing or will not fully satisfy both, without paying attention to this. Often women need to be stroked, affection, to foreplay than a "fire" than men.

Do not say anything when the "combat"

The majority of women will be more aroused than when inspiring voice charming, "sexy" in bed partners. Never sex that ignores not say anything.

During sex, women can never tell his men about him doing something wrong. However, this is really wrong, need to speak out now to adjust partners.

Men often have big egos and always eager to show off their ability to become a perfect partner. So, they will listen to women who share their interests and points of view as both being "combat."

Men do not reach orgasm?

seems like the sex is happening gender inequality: men tried every way to please women, but women rarely spoiled and actively monitored to where he enjoyed. Less attention, but her questions and the most common questions is, "he did not orgasm?".

Many people think simple, with men, ejaculation is an orgasm. Reality is not so. There are many levels of pleasure: pleasure less, just blocks just, more pleasure and orgasm is a peak. So be different "pleasure but not orgasm".

Orgasm is a state of ecstatic joy as it reaches higher levels in the ultimate sex. Orgasm occurs when the heart beats faster, breathing is stronger. For men, orgasm usually occurs with ejaculation but why still the case but did not ejaculate orgasm?

A man who had erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation is often so stressful to worry about that burden off the middle road. "So he had to concentrate to find ways to prolong sex. This time, he nearly sacrificed his feelings to make sense to women, ejaculation, but this time not how many others feel that the pleasure.

A man has no "intentions" for sex from the start, but still have "relations" to fulfill, how excited enough to reach the so-called "orgasm", though "production soldiers "? Can get an understandable example of this: a man is busy work, Confused, but still have our way of his wife to the movies. He sat watching movies, but his mind distracted, not interested, then how well the movie ... bad!

In some cases full of excitement, full of eager, but when "out ", still do not see a "happy", because the sperm were deadlocked, each of only a few drops. Some people also "feel ejaculate but no sperm, is due back ejaculation (due to open within the bladder) should not feel fresh. Unfortunately, the service with "upstream of" This medicine is also insufficient.

A few documents recording the Italian actor motion film about sex is considered Rocco Sifferdi champion on the number of orgasms. He tried to have sex with 14 girls on the same day and with every person he will reach orgasm and observers have been accredited. But actually, if you ejaculate 14 times a day like that, he can hardly have enough orgasms 14 times. Found it hard because rather tiresome. How to say, an orgasm is to have a natural, exciting, can not be forced.

So, in addition to psychological reasons, people who are interested but not orgasm, more likely to carry refined or erectile dysfunction, ejaculation upstream. If the man does not achieve orgasm ejaculation though, they should suffer a little pain ..., to the hospital to ask the doctor traced the cause.

To avoid "stroke" as "love"

Your body does not always ready for sex, do not try too may be the cause of sequelae, should know the power of your self in the following cases.

1. Are sick: When one of you is sick, if persisted in "love" will hurt your partner. Because when you are sick, to regulate physiological functions of the agency is not in the normal state, in particular, for those with hypertension, coronary heart disease, sexual intercourse will affect the central nervous system , high blood pressure, vascular spasm, easy to cause myocardial infarction or cerebral hemorrhage.

2. Labour, too much: After hard work, often physically and mentally tired, if one tried to make love in this condition can be fatal.

3. After drinking alcohol: Many people believe that drinking alcohol will have aphrodisiac effects, but if you have sex during drunken likely counterproductive. Because yeast can irritate the cardiovascular system, causing spasms of blood vessels, increasing blood flow, increased blood pressure, cause heart disease and cerebrovascular.

4. Nervous tension: "Love" when nervous tension or emotional instability, easy to cause heart disease and cerebrovascular, adversely affecting your health.

5. Substance abuse "excited": Some people to increase sexual desire had used drugs "exciting " to "fight" moves often intense intercourse losing power, then put the body slightly tired , more serious possible sudden death.

"Return to youth" or complications?

Although many men had entered the sixties age, even in the elderly, but sexual desire suddenly become strong again after the accident. This makes the wife and their children are not reassuring.

74 years is still... vigorous.

A health counseling center are wretched old lady with a voice whisper, but still has embroidered her husband (her man than ten years) on sex abuse with the question: "How do I to he curtailed. He just "abuse", I am old and do not desire anymore. "

We know she was 66 years old, has shed three incisors. her husband of 74 years. A few months ago, his brain injury due to traffic accidents, the old man's health has recovered. No doubt after injury to regain his health tools such as in the old man was a youth. The counselor explained to her out and brought him to recommend a specialist hospital for men to be the medical specialist, but perhaps because she did not bring shame to his visit.

"days to recover, I have seen him have a very unusual expression. Every time I sit near him or bring him medication, he awkward touching up my body. Once I was so ashamed : My grandson is 5 years old saw, he said loudly: "Ah, the grandfather touched her chest. " days he recovered completely, I no time to celebrate, he caused me more pain. "He demanded to sleep Overall, the night that also requires it. I said, "Let him go find another woman to" settle. "I switched my daughter's home, citing care of my grandchildren. But where to go , He found there. I'm afraid our children know. I'm more embarrassed, so I have to go back to our house. Many times I thought I was dead..."

We went to the Department of Psychiatry and treat substance-abuse treatment of Bach Mai Hospital. Here, the doctors said there were many cases in the elderly come here for treatment, "suddenly too strong"

Ms. Ha Thi Ly, Thanh Nghi, Thanh Liem district, Ha Nam province. She is staying at a mental hospital, to care for her father, she said: "Her father in the hospital, the doctor explained to me, he is much to be pitied. At home I do not understand, I thought he was getting old, but he did not care to stay healthy. The doctor said accidents caused my father a degraded cortex, nerve damage, making him unable to control behavior, so he had violent sex acts, sexual desire . Means he does not want but can not control his behavior. Now in the hospital, know the truth, when he looked at my mother, he had tears pouring. He looks very great pity !!!".

She said: "Fortunately, my uncle is a doctor in the city, he came to my house to talk, to know my father's situation, he told us to take him to hospital immediately. My uncle explained very long but in the final as we understand it is a disease, a complication rather than my father was "mentally ill". If you long to be very harmful to health. "

Listen to his talk with the doctor, she loved him more. "My father said:" It's unbearable. because the friction of clothing on my body made ​​me excited that I almost can not think of anything else. I was embarrassed and did not concentrate on work. At worst, there are times when I just finished having sex, I have seen are not satisfied, I tortured her again. Now here, I know that my condition is not psychological. There were times I thought I was crazy or?! ".

Alcoholism may cause sexual disorders

Many alcoholics also suffer from sex addiction, lack of control.

Pham Van Loi, Tien Hai Town, Thai Binh province is also being treated at the Faculty of psychiatric treatment, Bach Mai Hospital is one of the cases of sexual illnesses have roots in alcohol. Ms. Tran Thi Mien (his wife) said: "40 years of marriage with him, I had no peace day. He's capital alcoholism, drunk on a previous wife yelled at, insulted and chased the kids away ... last year he has added a new disability, when he was drunk want sex.

I and he were 60 years old, a few years ago, we did not do "it" anymore. But a recent years he requires constant. I tired to stand, I ask the commune health stations. Head of the local doctor said it was nerve-related diseases, should they all be treated. I had to borrow money to him to Hanoi ... The doctor said he would take a long time of treatment, I am very worried. "

Dr Nguyen Van Dung, head of psychiatric treatment and addiction treatment, Bach Mai Hospital, "Patients with neurological damage at the waist. This injury stimulates the nerves controlling sexual function, causing the patient requires constant sex.

This is called physical injury, disease is curable but can be expensive. Patients with a cortex degradation, damage plexus shame, and temporal brain regions in which also injured person does not control behavior, leading to violent sexual behavior. Besides, cases of accident, spinal injury, even in his paralyzed legs can fall prey to sex addiction.

Dr. Dung said: Treatment of sexual disorder is not easy, requiring the patient and family must be so patient. This is a serious illness of psychosis. Currently, drug treatments for this disease used to be quite careful, because if the medication has side effects that patients will be stimulated further. Therefore, the first time just recently explored drug treatment should patients need treatment for a long time, sometimes up to several months, is also costly to several thousand dollars per month. Therefore, many people choose to leave the hospital, though disaster was still ahead.

Subjective as testicular pain

Many men ignore the pain to the testicles, that can to be testicular atrophy, which can cause infertility. If you suddenly feel sharp pain or dull ache in the "two balls", do not be subjective.

For nearly a month, Tran Thi Kim Tuyet, 25, house in Nguyen Son, Tan Phu District, HCM City, she saw her husband seems indifferent sex. Cottage ask him, Tuan, her husband said: 'justify testicular pain. "She told her husband to see a doctor but he assured: "I think the bike was bumping testes, by a few days painful will be end ."

A few days later from the disease yet, now he has caught more difficult urination evidence, occasionally appear in the pain of his testicles, penis and spread to the lower abdomen. By this time, he was subject to the hospital. After he was a doctor, ultrasound and blood tests, doctors said Tuan inflamed prostate gland due to infection.

Testicles in men is the production of sperm. moreover, the testes produce male sex hormones and regulating activity of the male reproductive system. According to medical specialists for men, the testicles are very sensitive due to the external shell of the scrotum are quite fragile.

The causes of testicular pain in men:

- too much or not ejaculation ejaculation, inhibited ejaculation during sex husband and wife may be the cause of testicular pain.

- Mechanical stress: Due to the aggressive actions during sex, posture inappropriate. In addition, those who move more frequently (driver or passenger vehicles), especially cycling in a long time, or on uneven terrain can lead to painful testicles. Testicles are struck on hard objects (most commonly when playing sports) is also a factor.

- Testicular Torsion: Due to the testicles can move in the scrotum can cause testicular torsion, clogging blood vessels scrotum. Consequently, killing cells in the "ball. " This is a very dangerous situation, usually occurs in men between 10 and 20 years old.

- epididymis Inflammation of one or both sides. Causes It is caused by infection from the bladder or diseases transmitted sexually.

- Varicose veins rope crystal: This is the case of elastic veins located above the testicle, is most common in the justify testicle. In this case, the patient will feel pain in the testicles as hard work or standing for long time.

In terms of sensory, a party may be smaller testes than the other, touching your penis, you can be found fibrous, they resemble noodles. Rope crystal varicose veins will affect the quantity and quality of sperm.

To protect previous testicular pain, upon detecting unusual status in her husband's testicles (or prolonged pain), you should seek medical advise him as soon as possible in specialized hospitals for men .

If pain due to mechanical vibrations, you can use an ice pack or warm towel to up sore for your husband. Another way to ease the pain quite effectively as a warm bath. Also pathological cases such as testicular torsion, crystal ropes vasodilation ... patients who need specialist treatment early.

Depending on circumstances, your doctor will assign the appropriate treatment. As in the case of Mr. Tuan, after about six weeks of antibiotics, the situation "strategic areas" of him has improved significantly.

In addition, for disease prevention, the gentleman should be taken to protect "dangerous place" when playing sports, do not sit or ride to work continuously during 2-3 hours, often just walk to stretch the body, genital hygiene is also an effective way to prevent infection. Before and after sex, both spouses should clean your body clean. Also, to prevent viruses, bacteria, the couple should adopt measures to safe sex.

The truth about men is so sudden

He never refuse sex even when you're arguing for dissent, and embarrassed when he flirted with you, when you both were married ... You believe that?

As new love, he can suddenly appear at your door in an afternoon rain, suddenly gave you a bunch of roses or surprise you because a romantic dinner by candle light "settled" careful . Still, the sweetness was more sparse over time.

Comprehensible way, the American psychologist said: "When the new requirements, especially the period of" flirting ", the guy must do everything to impress you, they will think of" the hundred thousand design "sweet but once a relationship is stable, firm, the guy will feel he is in the safety zone, without trying to do something more romantic and you probably do not need again. "

The girls, relax a bit and not absolute as in the romance of books. Once you have a long term relationship, think that the guy repairing the car, washing dishes, put you to work or clean your shoes, these are really romantic and action filled with care.

He never refused sex

A new U.S. survey showed that 80% of men admit that they do not refuse sex, despite being an argument with his lover.

Some guy said: "Sex and a relationship of peace, and sweet, are two completely different aspects and they can divide the heart, brain in two issues not related to each other. Another reality shows, many couples have sex due to reconciliation!

maybe their says not much

Men often feel embarrassed to say a compliment, praising their girlfriends. maybe their says not much, does not show much emotion when you give them something sweet, caring, care, but the fact that they were "grateful" for what you do and only they can not say, "Hey, thanks for the beer you bought for me last night. "

Mai 25, said: "When my husband first trip times, I have a message:" I love you "into his suitcase. My husband said nothing to me and next time he went to work, I did not leave any messages. My husband called me and asked: "What you have forgotten, I found nothing in the suitcase.... "

He likes being cared

Even the guy looks powerful, masculine, cold, or "unfriendly" but really still want to be receiving care from his wife.

Selma said: "You're a martial arts degree, he is healthy, solid and, even, " harsh "and one day he was ill. He did phone me and ask me if I could bring him a bowl of soup and sit with him all afternoon was not ...".

Many girls have no concept of "cherished, spoiled" with her boyfriend and always thinking "men do not need those things, " but the men reality is very strong, though, sometimes the guy still wanted to get things then from lover.

"Once he stopped loving you ..."

when he has stopped loving you, he does not want to continue this relationship, surely he would say goodbye and even your surprise or pain, he still do.

Women have always cultivated mind, to hold their relationship even when they are no longer excited. Even if they had found a "better" their guy, they'll try to put the thinking goes, instead of breaking up with her ​​boyfriend. They fear the man of her injury, fear of separation scene.

Still, the other man, "once the heart was bored", they will not want to hold anything, do not think the split could make people love their suffering. They are too selfish, right? But man, God created them to be so!

"Little boy" should be cleaned daily

Just 10 minutes to the total sanitation three special areas of the penis will ensure an attractive gentleman with the lady who died there!

Foreskin

This is the first area you should note start cleaning penis. Especially when cleaning the foreskin, you need to pay attention to the head of the penis. Because this is where the focus is very much the plaque genital odor buildup in the flesh and skin.

If you do not wash them every day, these gentlemen can more easily see the white substance very unpleasant smell. That is the plaque sex. Genital plaque is a combination of dead cells, bacteria often thrive in moist dark area at these.

"Little boy" should be cleaned daily

To remove all plaque sex, you get up, pulled his foreskin back slightly above the penis. Then you'll get warm water wash area. Be careful when cleaning the glans and inner foreskin because the skin is quite sensitive to the touch.

Pubic region

The second area where you should focus that is the pubic penis. This is where sweat and hair are often combined to create a strong odor, just like the smell of your armpit.

This area needs regular cleaning to remove sweat because this region is mostly covered by his underwear in almost all day. So, for this area, you should shave or trim hair, especially in hot summer.

Section between head and body of the penis rules you should rub thoroughly in order not to miss any of the skin which penis.



Two testes

And finally, the third sector penis where you should concentrate on cleaning the testicles. By hanging between your legs, testicles even easier to arrest the most unpleasant smell because this place always goes much sweat. Sweat can accumulate in the folds of the skin or in the space between the penis and testicles.

Therefore, you should wash them carefully every day, make sure the perineum (the skin between the testicles and anus) also clean and odorless.