Saturday, May 7, 2011

"Return to youth" or complications?

Although many men had entered the sixties age, even in the elderly, but sexual desire suddenly become strong again after the accident. This makes the wife and their children are not reassuring.



74 years is still... vigorous.


A health counseling center are wretched old lady with a voice whisper, but still has embroidered her husband (her man than ten years) on sex abuse with the question: "How do I to he curtailed. He just "abuse", I am old and do not desire anymore. "


We know she was 66 years old, has shed three incisors. her husband of 74 years. A few months ago, his brain injury due to traffic accidents, the old man's health has recovered. No doubt after injury to regain his health tools such as in the old man was a youth. The counselor explained to her out and brought him to recommend a specialist hospital for men to be the medical specialist, but perhaps because she did not bring shame to his visit.


"days to recover, I have seen him have a very unusual expression. Every time I sit near him or bring him medication, he awkward touching up my body. Once I was so ashamed : My grandson is 5 years old saw, he said loudly: "Ah, the grandfather touched her chest. " days he recovered completely, I no time to celebrate, he caused me more pain. "He demanded to sleep Overall, the night that also requires it. I said, "Let him go find another woman to" settle. "I switched my daughter's home, citing care of my grandchildren. But where to go , He found there. I'm afraid our children know. I'm more embarrassed, so I have to go back to our house. Many times I thought I was dead..."


We went to the Department of Psychiatry and treat substance-abuse treatment of Bach Mai Hospital. Here, the doctors said there were many cases in the elderly come here for treatment, "suddenly too strong"


Ms. Ha Thi Ly, Thanh Nghi, Thanh Liem district, Ha Nam province. She is staying at a mental hospital, to care for her father, she said: "Her father in the hospital, the doctor explained to me, he is much to be pitied. At home I do not understand, I thought he was getting old, but he did not care to stay healthy. The doctor said accidents caused my father a degraded cortex, nerve damage, making him unable to control behavior, so he had violent sex acts, sexual desire . Means he does not want but can not control his behavior. Now in the hospital, know the truth, when he looked at my mother, he had tears pouring. He looks very great pity !!!".


She said: "Fortunately, my uncle is a doctor in the city, he came to my house to talk, to know my father's situation, he told us to take him to hospital immediately. My uncle explained very long but in the final as we understand it is a disease, a complication rather than my father was "mentally ill". If you long to be very harmful to health. "


Listen to his talk with the doctor, she loved him more. "My father said:" It's unbearable. because the friction of clothing on my body made ​​me excited that I almost can not think of anything else. I was embarrassed and did not concentrate on work. At worst, there are times when I just finished having sex, I have seen are not satisfied, I tortured her again. Now here, I know that my condition is not psychological. There were times I thought I was crazy or?! ".


Alcoholism may cause sexual disorders


Many alcoholics also suffer from sex addiction, lack of control.


Pham Van Loi, Tien Hai Town, Thai Binh province is also being treated at the Faculty of psychiatric treatment, Bach Mai Hospital is one of the cases of sexual illnesses have roots in alcohol. Ms. Tran Thi Mien (his wife) said: "40 years of marriage with him, I had no peace day. He's capital alcoholism, drunk on a previous wife yelled at, insulted and chased the kids away ... last year he has added a new disability, when he was drunk want sex.


I and he were 60 years old, a few years ago, we did not do "it" anymore. But a recent years he requires constant. I tired to stand, I ask the commune health stations. Head of the local doctor said it was nerve-related diseases, should they all be treated. I had to borrow money to him to Hanoi ... The doctor said he would take a long time of treatment, I am very worried. "


Dr Nguyen Van Dung, head of psychiatric treatment and addiction treatment, Bach Mai Hospital, "Patients with neurological damage at the waist. This injury stimulates the nerves controlling sexual function, causing the patient requires constant sex.


This is called physical injury, disease is curable but can be expensive. Patients with a cortex degradation, damage plexus shame, and temporal brain regions in which also injured person does not control behavior, leading to violent sexual behavior. Besides, cases of accident, spinal injury, even in his paralyzed legs can fall prey to sex addiction.


Dr. Dung said: Treatment of sexual disorder is not easy, requiring the patient and family must be so patient. This is a serious illness of psychosis. Currently, drug treatments for this disease used to be quite careful, because if the medication has side effects that patients will be stimulated further. Therefore, the first time just recently explored drug treatment should patients need treatment for a long time, sometimes up to several months, is also costly to several thousand dollars per month. Therefore, many people choose to leave the hospital, though disaster was still ahead.

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