1) Being Self-conscious - Some women are unable to enjoy sex because they are conscious of their bodies. In some cases, even after reassurance from the guy, women feel self-conscious. What women need to realize is that sex is about letting go completely and just indulging in a natural, stress-free act. If you get self-conscious, you are not only limiting your own enjoyment but also that of the partner.
2) Being Disinterested - This is the ultimate mood-killer for men. Making love to
someone who is disinterested in the act can be very annoying. Do not have sex if you do not feel up for it! It is better to let your man know that you would rather postpone it. But if possible, let go of whatever it is that is bothering you and go ahead and have some fun!
3) Instructing Him on Sex - The last place a man wants to receive sex tutorials is in the middle of the act. Giving suggestions to a man on sex can be offensive as men right away assume that their performance is being questioned! Instead of stopping him to lecture him on how he is doing it wrong, instead guide him with your hands or legs. Also if he starts to get it right, you can moan or whisper and rest assured he will get the point!
4) Not Taking Charge - Men traditionally do all the hard work while the women lie back and enjoy it, but role reversal can be a lot of fun for you too. Men love a woman who takes charge. Be it in attitude or your position, taking over the act can be a big turn on for your man.
5) No Foreplay - That's right, men like foreplay too! When a woman does absolutely nothing before getting into bed, it tends to be a laborious task for men. Men love to be seduced, teased, caressed etc. before making love. So go ahead and give him that much-awaited strip tease. It should blow him away!
Keeping these tips in mind before you make love can make all the difference. So go ahead and show your partner you care!
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